I've been spending my mornings working at the Ronald McDonald house, located next to the children's hospital. There are fourteen families currently living there, and I'm loving getting to know them a bit while hanging out and helping out with whatever needs doing. Most of my time, however, is spent in a new room for parents in the hospital. I was lucky enough to have my first day volunteering on the day the sala opened, so I've had the unique opportunity of helping them get it started. Basically it's a room to be used by the parents of children in intensive therapy while they wait for the kids to be done for the day. It has a tv, fridge, washing machine, couch, everything. Yet it's been open for a week and for some reason no one wants to use it, even though it is absolutely pristine and gorgeous compared to the rest of the scrappy hospital. Why? The rule is that only one family member at a time can use the sala, and it's the culture here that the WHOLE family comes along to therapy, even though there is only one visiting hour in the morning and one in the afternoon. Every morning, here come the moms, dads, grandmas, cousins, neighbors even. They bring lawn chairs and toys and mate to drink, and hang out in the dirty hallways all day long. This is something the hospital wants to change, since it is unnecessary and potentially dangerous for the sick kids, so they paired with the Ronald McDonald house to open up the sala. So, Andrea the psychologist and I spend the mornings getting everything in order, organizing and hanging up pictures. We talk with the parents when we can, and try to encourage them to start to utilize the space. The first day we had one mom come in for about 10 minutes, but today I talked with about 5 of them, and one even stayed for half an hour. So it's going to be a slow process changing everyone's views on the way a hospital should be, but Andrea says it was the same when the hospital in Buenos Aires opened up a sala and we just need to keep chipping away. So I'm excited to be there for the next month to see the story unfold, and in the meantime am enjoying getting an inside look on the Argentine culture.
Other than these few things I've gotta say life has felt strangely normal lately. We've been in the same place, in the same house, with the same people for a month now. We've got the neighborhood figured out, have ventured outside the city for trips to the river a few times, and are getting settled into our volunteer jobs. On top of the zoo and the Ronald McDonald house, we have both been going every afternoon to hang out with the kids in the community center on the edge of town with our roomies, Kanya and Marcia. So we spend our days working and our nights barbecuing and playing cards with friends, just like we would be doing back in the states. Our Spanish is good enough now that we can have comfortable friendships with people who don't speak any English, and I even somehow made it through an interview in Spanish last week. And yes, we still eat ice cream on the daily. Life is good.
Feeling like I fit in (even though I still don't look like it),
Jenna Flynn
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